研究:情侶對話愈幼稚,感情基礎愈好!「Baby Talk」原來跟「母愛」有關|SundayMore

有時候情侶之間就會突然智商下降,對話變成3歲小朋友,可能這是兩人之間的情趣,但是旁人聽起上來只覺得這兩個人「有病」!但是有研究顯示,情侶之間這種幼稚的對話叫「Baby Talk」,透露著兩人之間的感情狀態!
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研究:情侶對話愈幼稚,感情基礎愈好!你有沒有試過跟另一半突然出現幼稚的時刻,互相用「BB」、「豬豬」、「小寶貝」等等花名稱呼對方?!然後大家就開始變成3歲小朋友的聲音和智商對話。其實這種行為是情侶間一個感情好的表現,很多研究表示,情侶間的這種「Baby Talk」行為代表著兩人之間的感情基礎非常堅定!

「Baby Talk」原來同「母愛」有關通常對話愈幼稚,或者有時候愈詭異「無厘頭」,兩人之間的感情愈好!主要原因是因為兩人的信任基礎較深,在對方面前更加不會掩飾,所以就肆無忌憚!
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但更深層的原因是「BabyTalk」喚醒了我們童年時期和「母愛」相關的情緒記憶,親子之間的親密語言和情侶間的情話其實有很多的相似之處,這些可愛的稱呼或裝小孩聲音,都會讓腦袋分泌愉悅的苯乙胺與催產素等愛情物質,讓兩人之間更加親近。
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另外,情侶之間特別的說話風格會建構起一種「語言的兩人世界」,告知外界兩人的愛情堅不可摧,同時也在兩人的心裡建立安心的歸屬感,有時候兩人說了一句別人聽不明白的笑話時,心裡就會有種很溫暖、愉悅的感覺!所以不要笑別人幼稚了,別人的感情超級好呢!
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